Problem Focused/Purpose Focused Quiz Email* 1.* I see my spouse’s shortcomings, flaws, and weaknesses. I see differences in me and my spouse that complement and balance one another. 2.* My spouse’s idiosyncrasies constantly annoy me. I extend grace because I need grace. I choose to believe the best about my spouse, celebrating his or her design. 3.* I tend to complain about the present and the past. I intentionally practice praise, looking with positive expectancy toward the future. I’m not bound by unforgiveness. 4.* I feel hindered. I focus on God’s promises because they offer me strength and hope. 5.* I lack clarity and am confused by current circumstances. I am seeking clear direction and certainty of where I want to go. 6.* I tend to see glitches, hitches, and difficulties. I practice an attitude of gratitude and praise. 7.* I contemplate and point out ways my spouse should change. I ask God to help my spouse live fully into His design for his or her life. I choose to focus on how I can improve, knowing I can only change myself. 8.* I feel trapped. I see options and seek God to make positive changes in my life. 9.* I justify my actions by pointing to my spouse’s. I refuse to keep a scoreboard and take accountability to change and grow. 10.* I regret marrying my spouse. God designed a purpose for my marriage and uses it to make me stronger. 11.* Our past and present circumstances hinder us from serving others. The entirety of our life serves a purpose. 12.* We spend the majority of our time trying to fix one another. We practice healthy self-examination and genuinely seek to grow together. 13.* I feel burdened to make things happen. I’m faithful where God positions me. 14.* I often pray, “Surely there must be more to life than this.” I most often pray, “Father, open the doors You want me to walk through.” 15.* I tend to compare and compete, feeling unworthy or inadequate. I embrace our unique designs and love using our talents for God’s glory. PhoneThis field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged. To gain special access to more valuable resources for help in determining your marriage purpose, click here to sign up for our membership area…it’s FREE!